Mind My Own Business

Away = Closer?

Am I independent? Kind of? I'm not too sure. I don't click too much with my family but that doesn't mean I don't love them. In my heart, I still care much for them. Sometimes it's good for us to stay away from family. After I decided to stay away from my family, my relationship with my family improved as years past by. When I asked around, most of my friends are closer to their mom than the dad. However, I'm different. I argued with my mom a lot since I was kid. We never sit down and talk properly. Things are different for my dad. He talked a lot with me, whether I like it or not. After I stayed away from my family, I started to call my mom more and talked to her more than before. Hmm...funny huh?

Mind "My" Own Business

Today I shared something with one of my friend through msn messenger. I asked her "Am I too busy body sometimes?" When I see the people around me is too dependent on the family, I always ask the same question "how come?". After a long discussion with her, she said "just mind your own business..." It sounds rude right? But it is so true. Everyone has their own life. The way they live their life can be similar or very much different from you. You just can't force them to live their life exactly the same way you did. May be what I can do is giving some advices to them. If they take it, then it's great and perhaps your advices can help them. If not, just leave them alone. For what I need to put other people problem on myself? I can't please everyone around me. I just do what I can to help them and show them how I live my life. I'm not perfect...of course and I'm still learning. Hmmm...the end.