Unpredictable

It has been so long since I was forced to take leave by doctor. Red eyes infection...what on earth??? Believe it or not...The whole consultation was less than one minute. I really doubt all the doctors nowadays. Anyway, I just take the advice so that I won't spread the virus to my colleagues. I packed some food and went back home.

PERSONAL
I am so troubled for the past few days. I just never expect so many things will happen. We will never know what will happen next...seriously. But it is the matter of how we take all the challenges and overcome it. That is how our life should be. Not just stay there and run away from the challenges when it comes. We will never grow. There are so many around us still practicing that. I am kinda disappointed and feel sad for them. I really pray that they will realize it and do something before it is too late. [Guys, 30 years old suppose to be the best age in our life where everything should be stable by then. Stop whining and doing nothing there. By the way you live your life now, everything will stay the same and by the time you realize, you already 50 years old by then.]

We shall appreciate now and always prepare for tomorrow. "Miracles happen after hard work", one of my friend told me. Plan your work and then work your plan. Never take our eyes off our target. It is easy to say but not easy when comes to doing it. That causes the 90% of people in this world contributing wealth to the rest 10%.

WORLD
Japan, one of the strong country hit by earthquake, tsunami and nuclear plant leaks. And yet, they are facing them calmly. I really can't imagine what will happen if it hit Malaysia. Then, the election is coming. All the politicians did "what they suppose to do". They going around and pour the money everywhere in order to secure their victory in the election. Besides that, witnesses are answering stupidly on the court. Most of the cases will always end with a question mark. I really hate reading the newspaper sometimes. All the negative issues and injustices really drive us crazy.

HOPE
Life is full with all kind of possibilities and opportunities. It is the matter of how we choose it to be. Sometimes the change is just right on the corner. If you take it and work hard on it, then your life will be change forever. But if you ignore it and turn away, then nothing will happens.

a) Career
It is on track. How soon I can get it is depend on how soon I can change myself.

b) Relationship
Hi, I like you. Can I go after you?

c) Family
Everything will be fine.

First Post of 2011

This is my first post in 2011. I really love to write but really don't have time to sit on the chair to write my feelings out. Tonight I will spend some time to write again.

"Did you spend your life meaningfully today?"
This is a simple question, either yes or no. But before you answer this, try to seriously look back on what you did today. Some people don't even dare to think about this question. I really want to say, we were born to this world with a purpose. Don't waste your life. Try to do something meaningful to yourself or the people around you. Stop being selfish and share our love with the people around us. Don't just "go work, come home, eat, play, sleep...". Frankly said, human is not far different from an animal if we don't use the gift or talent that our creator gave to us. Everyone is born with a gift. Every time I go back home and always check on my hamster. Their life is so boring - eat, play, sleep. What makes us so different that them if we are doing the same things as what they did?

Check on him -> Nick Vujicic (guy without arms and limbs)


How many of them out there try their very best to live their life? And yet so many of us, physically not handicap but we are seriously mentally handicapped. I'm saying this to myself too. We must step out of our comfort zone and do something great out there. Friends, if you are reading this and you might feel angry and disagree with me. But I'm just telling the truth.

L.O.V.E
When I gets older, I really started to know more on how to love others. Too many youngsters nowadays misused this word, they can just say "I love you" without feeling any responsibilities on the word. I won't comment much on others but I do hope they will understand one day. It's really hard for me to love all the people that know me. Why? Because I'm just an ordinary guy.

I love my family. I love my friends. I love my business partners.

And my future life partner? The prettiest and most attractive girls are those who has great ambition and able to plan their life properly. I'm not sure whether I found it. Haha. She is nice.

DREAMS
Recently there is one great short clip I found on the Internet. It's about five uncles who still chasing after their dreams even though they are old and having all kind of diseases or sickness on them. Do not wait till we gets old. We must do our best to achieve our dreams in life. Never let go our dreams easily and never give up :) God bless you all.

10 Questions of 2010

3 more days, end of 2010. I am wrapping it up now with 10 questions.

1.
Q: Conclusion of the year?
A: Unpredictable, exciting, happy.

2.
Q: Biggest breakthrough?
A: I met so so many new faces and friends.

3.
Q: Church?
A: God is great.

4.
Q: Family?
A: Thanks God. Now I am closer to all my family members. Especially my dad. He changes.

5.
Q: Career?
A: Awesome. Keep building and working hard towards my dreams. Praise the Lord.

6.
Q: Relationship?
A: Pursuing a girl. God's will. I will do my best, let God do the rest. Pray for me guys.

7.
Q: Health?
A: Oh yeah, no problem. Basketball rocks!

8.
Q: What would you like to say to the special one?
A: I am sincere and I like to have you in my life.

9.
Q: Would like to say something to your churchmates?
A: I love you all from the bottom of my heart.

10.
Q: Anything else?
A: To all the mentors in my life, especially Sharon Chai Ming Ai, Madam Wong Ching Loo and sister Chai Ching Hua, and passionate leader Yeap Choon Haw. THANK YOU! I can't imagine my life without you all. And to all my fellow business partners, GO GO GO! Fight for our dreams!

Bye 2010. 2011, here I come!

Random Post: I miss my family

This is a self motivation post to myself.

I never had this feeling since so long. Very very long.. I miss my family. I was browsing through the photos of my family through facebook. I can't see myself in most of the photos. I feel awful. Haha.

But, I am still holding tight to my belief and faith in God. I came to KL for something. I want something for myself. I want to change everything. Everyone seems walking the same path but I chose the road less travelled. I strongly believe one day in the very near future I will be able to take more photos with my family and spend more time with them.

It has been close to four solid years I have been in KL. There are and were many ups and downs, challenges, obstacles, etc. I am fully responsible for all the consequences caused by my actions. And of course, I met many people. A lot of awesome people. I enjoy talking to all of them. A lot of friendships being built. Enemies? I think so. Should be those who offended me on the road while driving. All the cars here are having one problem - their car indicator lights are just for decoration purpose and not being used most of the times.

I am still fighting for financial freedom as my virtual mentor, Robert Kiyosaki told me when I was 22 years old. It is easy but not simple. It takes a lot of courage and faith to do it. I sticked to his guidance since four years ago and I strongly believe I am on the way now.

As for relationship, we will never be able to avoid this topic when we grow older. Same to me, my earthly father bugged me since I was 24. However, I am holding to my faith on my heavenly Father. He will show me the right one and of course I need to fight for it.

If someone ask me, "How to live a meaningful life?" I will say, "Do something that you never try before. Anything that never offend other people or violate the laws. Just give a shot." Everything is all about our mindset. The ways we think affect all the outcomes.

There are few words I want to say to 'THEM'
To my job: I will never work forever for you but for the time being I will still stick to you.

To my business: I will put on my best effort to build you up as I need you to take care the rest of my life in the future.

To my church: I appreciate whatever you guys done for me. I love you all.

To my future life partner: I will get you soon. You can run but you can't hide. LOL.

Thanks for reading this. God bless you.

WHAT ON EARTH?

After so long never write in my blog, now I really need to share something with the people out there. Especially young teenagers and young adults. I called my mom today and she told me a news about a 22 years old Malaysian young adult who commited suicide just because the girlfriend broke up with him after 4 months of relationship?! Jumped down from 14 floor somemore...normally chinese don't like the number 14 one. I'm not sure whether he stayed at 14 floor or purposely went to 14 floor to jump but one thing I'm very sure is those owners who owned unit in 14 floor sure very very sad because their property value sure dropped so so so much one.

I'm not here to tease or showing disrespect to Alviss Kong but I really want to say. "You are stupid."

The News about Alviss Kong. (I'm not sure got English version or not, you guys go and find yourself)

Words to Alviss Kong
Not sure why. As a guy, I'm very upset with the decision you have made. Is it really worth to kill yourself just because of a girl? 4 months??? Your mom carefully took care of you for 9 months before you can see this world!

Our life is given by our dear heavenly father and you just wasted it because of a girl? Do you know how many people out there is fighting to survive in this world? I saw so many people out there who is handicapped but still fighting all they can to survive in this damn challenging society. We have no rights to take away our life just like that. God decides for us when we should leave this world, not you buddy.

My Own Words now.
After I read the news and I saw Alviss Kong photos, suddenly I feel proud of myself and glad that my parents didn't give me such a cute and handsome face. Because I know God prepared a different path of life for me to go through in order to achieve what I want for myself, especially in relationship or marriage. Everyone came to this world with different appearances (am I using the right word?). No matter how we look like, we must understand that we are all unique. Unique in the sense of we can do something which others can't do. You might not sure what you can do now, but trust me. One day you will.

SO BRAVE!
To Alviss Kong, may you rest in peace. I totally respect you for your guts on jumping down from 14 floor. I will never able to do that in my life. My legs already shaking when I'm on higher ground. Tell you all one secret, I did attempt what Alviss Kong did to himself but something stopped me. That is FAITH. In my 26 years of life. I went up so many ups and downs in my "mission to get a girlfriend" life. I succeeded once after so many failures. Girls rejected me again and again. Is it hurt? Of course! But so what? Luckily that time no facebook. I talked to myself and comfort myself to calm down and think wise. My parents never help me get over all these but I learned to overcome it instead of mourning over it.

REJECTIONS
To all the guys, girls rejected you because they don't know you well enough. Just like me. I always wanted the girl to know that I like her and I really want her to become my girlfriend. But at the end of the day, here comes the rejections. And one more thing, you will never able to LOVE a girl if you don't LIKE her enough. Understand? I saw a lot of youngsters on the so beginning stage of their relationship always say, "Love you darling", "I love you so much", "Do you love me?", etc. So quick say love ah? No wonder after marriage, most of the statements turned into hate instead of love. We must like her first, includes all her weaknesses such as personalities and attitudes.

IMPROVE
Being rejected 5 times and then killed yourself? Your life is so cheap. My life ain't cheap at all. That's why I can survive until today and I'm 26 now. I got rejected so many times until I feel immune already. We all know that, rejections will lead to success. Then why not we just accept it? Next one will be better! By the way, always improve yourself. I was really fat last time and in order to court girls, I decided to lose weight. I successfully lost some weight but I still got rejected. Then I change my ways of dressing. I still got rejected. Next, I change the ways I think and talk. I became so humourous but I still got rejected. What I want to say here is, keep all the positives and get rid of the negatives. You will find the RIGHT ONE one day. Everytime I got rejected, I will feel hurt and down for a while. That's normal. I suggest few ways you can do if you got rejected. I did these things, it works.

Ways to HEAL your injured heart after REJECTIONS
a) Lock yourself in the room and cry. After cry, then sleep. After sleep normally will feel very blur. Go take a shower and play online games or outdoor sports. Why do these? Who know you will meet another better girls?

b) Call your best friend and tell him or her everything. They will do their best to comfort you. Who know him or her will become your next lover?

c) Go to the mirror. Talk to yourself. Tell yourself that "It is her lost because he or she rejected you. You will be such a good lover but he or she just missed it." And never forget to say this, "I will meet a better one in the near future". Oh yeah, confidence restored!

d) Go eat or drink with your friends. As much as you can. Some sort like satisfies your empty heart with the solid food and unhealthy drinks. This one don't works so well to me.

e) Block him or her on msn and facebook. For few months, so that you can forget everything slowly. But, but don't forget to unblock. Why? Can still remain friends what. Who know still got chance in the future? Hehe, never give up easily.

One thing I did very well after each rejections is keep the friendship with the girls. You will never know what will happen :)

I'm still single now and still looking for the right one but I'm sure I will meet her very soon. Keep positive and moving forward. Thanks to Alviss Kong, for the inspirations to write this post. Rest in peace bro.

成功的道路 [18PL]

谁不想成功？如果有人这么说，那个人是在骗你。有哪个父母不想自己的孩子过上好生活？你觉得有的话，那肯定是你本身的问题。你有很认真的坐下来跟他们谈吗？我有，结论是我对我自己很失望。你很喜欢你的工作？放你的屁！你能在你的老板一年起你薪少过200块的情况下，很真心的对他说“感谢你，老板！我会对公司忠心耿耿的。” 你可能会说：“老兄，做人要知足。两百块很多了啊！” 那我会说，“老兄，你结婚时老板不会帮你付订金的。当你养不起你的家人时，你的老板不会自告奋勇救济你的。” You are all on your own! 你不帮你自己，谁帮你啊？

我的信仰
这是一个很敏感的话题。我今天会告诉你们我的想法。我几年前，终于找到了我要侍奉的教堂。我很开心，也很兴奋。我很想全时间侍奉主，但是我被环境打倒了。朋友，我不管你今天多认真对待每件事。只要你的身边的朋友都是不积极的，相信我。你是迟早变成他们一份子的。你的环境会改变你的一生！我看现在的我，很多教友会认为我爱钱爱疯了。但是，朋友。如果你认为钱是罪恶的，那你今天试一下。去免费打工，我看你能生存多久。人往高处爬。如果你说你们打工不是为了更高的工资，那你是在放屁。

如果你说你是全心向主，那你应该去读神学或做牧师。如果你说，全心向主不一定要那么做。那么你告诉我，你能帮到多少非信徒？你能爱多少非信徒？还是你认为，我有尽力就好。上帝一定会怜悯我的，然后允许我进入天堂。那我祝福你。如果你连自己的问题都解决不了，你怎样帮助其他人？你告诉我。对，我们需要过犹如耶稣般的生活。那你告诉我，你在空闲时干什么？是不是尽心尽力在宣传主的信息？我看到的是，浪费时间。

其实，我也在浪费时间。但是我花时间在我的未来。不久的将来，我会把所有的时间奉献给主。我豁出去了。我将会帮助所有那些愿意帮助自己的人。老实说，我们身为基督教徒。我们很担心上帝会不会接我们进入天堂。对我来说，我一点都不担心。因为我很清楚我在做什么。一切决定还是又上帝决定。

好了，暂时要说的是这些。后会有期。

This is GROW

No matter you like it or not. Time kept passing by and things around you kept on changing. Before this, I always wanted to do something big but it never happens. Why? Because I don't get a chance and no motivation from anything or anyone. There is no people (besides God) who understands your life better than yourself. Everyday, I will ask myself again and again. "Are you doing something that related to your future and realize your dreams?" That is how I got myself moving forward everyday. And this is GROW.

I BELIEVE
Focus and concentration. That is all we need in order to make something happens. I don't care what you are doing now. Without focus and concentration, you won't reach anywhere further. If you are, be persistent and you will achieve success. People can't see what you are trying to do at first but do not ever give up. The best way to persuade people around you is prove it. Don't just TALK but WALK the TALK. I might be alone in the beginning. But I know very well that as long as I hold on my faith and trust on what I am doing now. I will success. And this is GROW.

I THINK
Think before you say something. Because for me, word is the most dangerous weapon in this world. Word can kills someone. How? It can kills someone's dreams. Without dreams, you are no different with dead people. People will not be responsible for what they said to you (if their words kills your dreams).

If they fails, LEARN from their failures.
If they success, IMITATE their ways.
If they never did it, IGNORE them.

I know this is rude but if you never do on something that someone is trying to do. Please say this "All the best to you man" or shut up and walk away. Never try never know. It is easy for you to say but are you practicing that? I was disappointed by so much promises and it is worst when you are trying to do something and "NO" is always the answer I got without any attempts being made. Don't easily say "NO". Guys, you have dreams. Go for it. Don't care how big it is. Just go for it. That is how we GROW.

If you don't dare to grow, then please don't stop others from GROWing.

Earthly parents, brothers and sisters, I will make everyone happy by ACTION.
Heavenly fathers, you know what I have in my heart. I will glorify your name by ACTION.

May God bless those who is reading this.

Random Updates on an ordinary guy ~ Robert Ling

This blog is not dying. Just the owner too busy... Nowadays, exclude the normal working hours. I only have an average one to two hours to do my thing online. Haha, but I'm quite satisfied because I don't feel like I'm wasting time anymore. I'm happy on the changes happened to me for all the years since I graduated from University.

Interesting Highlights
1st Stage - Oct 2006 ~ Feb 2007
- Separated from my first love and suffered downtime for very long.

- Got my first job. Very excited. RM1600 only but being "jailed" at Cyberjaya (the so called very developing city).

- Fired my first boss (Donald Trump say:"You're fired!")

2nd Stage - April 2007 ~ April 2008
- Got my second job. Very excited because of new challenges. Call centre.

- Became zombie (aimless in daily life) because of working shift.

- Fired my second boss (Donald Trump say:"You're fired!...again")

3rd Stage - April 2007 ~ January 2010
- Got my third job. Very excited because I don't know anything about the job.

- Found my church - Cheras Baptist Church. But... I'm the eldest youngster in the church...imagine that.
- Got my first car. Very excited because I can bang other people car already. Hahaha. But...maintenance fee very high...

- Very passionate about church and attempt to involve a lot...really A LOT. And yes, in one year. Everyone know me already.

- Dare to be different but after sometimes. We are still the same! Still love Jesus but decided to stop running away from challenges.

- Squeezed my brain to figure out what business to start with because I don't like working for people. However, failed failed failed! Because I'm all ALONE.

4th Stage - September 2009 ~ present
- I found it.
- Face my deepest fear and overcome challenges
- And it is still goes on... :)

I've wasted so much time. How about you?

What did we do?

Another random post of my random thoughts. Today I must finish it because I always never be able to finish a post for the past few months due to the lack of patience. This morning, as usual I went to play basketball. I got to know an uncle who is very fit and athletic in this sport. I was really impressed by his skills. On this second meeting with him, I got to talk with him.

His name is Uncle David. He has five degrees! If I'm not mistaken, both of his sons are studying in United Kingdom. He told me how much he spent for his kids' education fees. It was like 80,000 pounds per year. He really made my brain spins again. 80,000 pounds??? It is like 400,000 Ringgits!! So if I become dad and my kids are so smart, how could I afford it? With my salary now, all I can say is IMPOSSIBLE! Somemore Uncle David also said, "The money won't be able to earn back anymore because their profession only can offer them so little pay". Oh man, I was really surprised when he said that because he is one of the chief management officer in his banking industry.

My thought: Do you ever imagine what would the life of your children be in the future? Frankly, I started to worry and really motivated to work harder in my part-time business (soon to be full-time in the future). No matter how hard or how challenging it is. I can't be too selfish about myself. To God I pray with my heart so that He will guide me and look after me. To myself, I promise will do my very best to surpass my capability in order to build a brighter future for my family and children.

At night, I decided to go to my second Christian funeral in my life. Pastor Yee, our Mandarin speaking Pastor shared meaningful speech with us. But in my mind, I was thinking something else. All of us will come to a time where we need to leave this world. Same to our beloved ones, not only our wife or children but also our parents who brought us to this world. Have you ever thinking on how hard they brought us up? Have you ever thinking of repay them? If yes, how?

My thought: Seriously...I really do not know what to do or how to do in order to repay them. All I know is with the job and life I'm having now, there is NO WAY I can do it.

I can't be as naive as when I was teenager.
I can't be as "lost" as when I just started my life in the working society.
I can't be as LAZY as when I was selfish about my own future but do not care about others.

Well... I do not know about you but at least we can TRY to do something right? God bless you all. Good night.